Thursday, October 10, 2013

Eroticon USA 2013

I am so happy that next week I will be attending the first ever Eroticon USA in Atlanta, GA! After an informal meet and greet on Friday evening, all day Saturday is filled with various workshops about blogging and writing erotica. Saturday evening will entail a live erotica reading. The event is wrapped up Sunday with a brunch. I haven't been so excited about anything in a very long time! I'm most looking forward to meeting Molly and Harper! I will be sure to post all the details once I get back and have had a chance to collect my thoughts on the experience!
Name: Tonya M. Idlewine

Twitter id: @TisforTMI
Where in the world are you?
Jacksonville, FL

What brings you to Eroticon USA?
The opportunity to meet and network with other sex bloggers and erotica writers. And the chance to meet the friends I've made through blogging.

What are you looking forward to most about Eroticon USA?
All of it! But mostly I am looking forward to meeting face-to-face so many of the wonderful people I've interacted with through blogs and Twitter. :)

If you had to make up a pen name again what would it be? Actually, I would prefer to just use my real name. :)

Tuesday, September 24, 2013

TMI Tuesday - Taboo & fantasy

TMI Tuesday: September 24, 2013 More questions submitted by TMI Tuesday players, on June 16, as a response to that week’s bonus question. Thank you again! This week is all about Taboo, tickles, and fantasy.

Monday, September 23, 2013

Being bisexual

Today is Bi Visibility Day. I am proudly bisexual (pansexual, really). This is why gay rights are so important to me. I am currently in a long term relationship with a man that I love dearly, but could have just as easily been a woman with whom I'd fallen in love. I've loved many women (and men) in my past. Bi Visibility Day is a thing because so many of us happen to be in seemingly heterosexual relationships that we "pass" or "blend," that we're considered invisible. We are often occused of availing ourselves of heterosexual privelege because of that. I shed my supposed invisibility and make my voice heard to fight proudly for rights for myself and all of my LGBT brothers and sisters. (copied today from my "normal" or "vanilla" everyday Facebook under my real name)

This post has been sitting in my Drafts folder for a long time now, waiting to be written. Today is the perfect day to finally dust it off, polish it up, and publish it!

Sunday, September 22, 2013

Pussy Pride on a Sinful Sunday - Why I love my pussy

It's only fitting that the Pussy Pride Project should be the one that ends my hiatus from blogging. This post has been in the works for a very long time now, almost since the (true) beginning of my blog.

Last year I wrote a post called my defective pussy in which I listed all the ways I don't like my pussy. Strangely enough, it's that post that brings the most hits to my blog via search, even though it's not the post with the highest stats. When I look at the search keywords in my traffic sources stats, the search for "defective pussy" has the highest number of searches of all time. And that doesn't count the variations like "defect pussy", "defektiv pussy", etc. Not a week goes by that there isn't at least one search for a defective pussy that leads to my blog.

Now it's only fair that I finally tell you all of the things that I love about my pussy.

Tuesday, August 6, 2013

Mmmm... tentacles...

I'm posting this here because I want to share it with the world and I can't post it on my regular FB. I drew this last night. It's just a rough sketch now, but my first kinky painting it will be soon enough! :)

Saturday, May 4, 2013

Still alive!

Hello, my loves. Just this afternoon I was thinking about how I should let everyone know I am, in fact, still breathing and then I got an email from my lovely friend over at BiandBiLikesSciFi checking in with me. So it's really time for a long overdue update. Unfortunately, there's not much sexiness in it.

It was a little dim for me for a while, maybe even dark in bits, but life has actually been pretty good lately. The short and sweet version of events is that I quit my soul-sucking job in January, spent two months unemployed, and have been working an easy call center temp job since the last week of March. The pay is decent and it's pretty a stress-free cake job, but I work 11:30a to 8p with a 30-45 minute commute each way, which doesn't leave much time for much on the weekdays. And the weekends are usually pretty busy.

During the period where I had all the time in the world to blog and tweet, I just didn't feel like it. Now that I don't I have the time, I still don't really feel like it. The biggest thing is that I have really done a great job of just stepping the fuck away from my computer. I realized that I truthfully have a serious problem with being addicted to the internet. Unhealthily and unproductively so. I would sit for hours and hours just surfing and link-hopping. Not even playing mindless games or anything. And definitely not writing. So I just made myself take a break.

In the meantime I've taken up painting. :) I don't know if you saw the couple of paintings I'd posted on Twitter forever ago after going to a group painting class, but it made me see that I could just do it myself. So I bought some canvases and paints and brushes. I'm still not great, nothing close to an artist, but I can do decent copies of simple paintings and have done a couple of *very* simple originals.

[Ugh, I tried to upload some examples, but Blogger is being a cooze! Instead, here's Dropbox link for those that are interested!]

I still have sexy times, and I even have a girlfriend now, but just haven't felt the drive to put it all out there and share it with the world like I did for a while. I'm sure it will come back, but I don't know when.

The sad thing is that I really truly miss all of my friends on the blogosphere and Twitter. But checking in and spending time with you all means sitting in front of the computer and that's just dangerous territory for me for right now. Hopefully one day I'll be able to be disciplined enough to structure and budget my time online to make wise use of it, but I'm definitely not there yet.

I hope all is well with my loves out there all over the world. Don't worry, this isn't goodbye. I will be back! Stay tuned!

Sunday, March 17, 2013

Sinful Sunday - Stretching out

I finally got my prizes yesterday and intended to make a special post today showing them off, but forces conspired against me. Instead I must leave you with this shot of me spending some quality time on the couch with The Doctor. See you next week.  :-)

Sunday, March 3, 2013

Sinful Sunday - Hand and foot

Last night was an international Hitchin' Bitches meeting. We linked up via webcam through Google Hangout with a couple of other chapters from around the globe. I'm not sure exactly which chapters we linked up with, but I know the Sydney group was represented. I think we may have been too distracted with our group to really watch a lot of what was going on with everyone else, but it was a cool and fun experience that I'm sure we'll repeat. And I got to learn a new tie for my foot! :)

Sunday, February 24, 2013

Sinful Sunday - Hotel Spread

Once again Roland and I visited The Woodshed. We had to wait until we got to the hotel to finish our scene properly.

Sunday, February 17, 2013

Sinful Sunday - Bodies and Words

I had lots of different ideas for Molly's Valentine's Day competition today. Unfortunately, many of them were overly ambitious at this time. So I thought a simple image would work best.